Strange, my '09 didn't come with bluetooth either but it's in my owner's manual. You can download the manual here, but if it's not in the '08 manual you can download the '09 to get the list.
Its because it was an OPTION in '09, so its in your manual. It was never even offered as an option in 07/08.
Ah, good point. ;)
Part#20756237 is a bluetooth VCIM that should work, it's the one I have.
Part#15938939 is the bluetooth antenna you need if it's not included with the VCIM you're looking at.
Strange, my '09 didn't come with bluetooth either but it's in my owner's manual. You can download the manual here, but if it's not in the '08 manual you can download the '09 to get the list.
Glad you got it paired up!
First press and hold the button for ~2 seconds, after the system says "Ready" say "Bluetooth", after the system says "Bluetooth ready" then say "Pair", then follow the instructions. The commands are listed in the owner's manual.