Thanks for the responses.
gemarsh - the remote features all work when this happens, It will unlock/lock doors, it will open tailgate, it will shut the engine back off and it will restart the engine.
This Failure to let me take control has happened all 3 ways, using the app, using the fob, and just getting in and try starting it by putting foot on brake and pushing the button.
I started switching ways of starting the truck since the 1st time this has happened trying to eliminate what it could be. The last visit to the dealer they suggested it could be interference of maybe a toll road easypass? or my Gym and work RFID card passes? something of that type. I have removed all of these with the exception of a window sticker that has a chip in it for my car wash membership. (hard to remove that one). and if it is one of these things you would think all the vehicles would pose this problem. So I think the dealer is grasping at straws?
So I'm at a loss with a untrusting vehicle. Boy do I wish I had my 2014 truck back.