When I was debating between diesel and gas, I concluded that, in....MY... case, a diesel would be nice to have but not a necessity.
First, it was hard to justify adding close to 12,000 CAD to the cost for only 6,000 miles per year hauling the travel trailer. Second, the maintenance costs, DEF, fuel prices, etc., were also factors.
Once again, for ...ME..., nothing justified that amount of money. On top of that, most mechanics can work on a conventional V8, but I'm not sure about the Duramax.
For 10 years, the F150 took us to our destinations, maxed out in every spec, but it still got the job done. My new truck, however, is like night and day with room to spare all around, and more than enough motor. So far, I wouldn't want anything else. All I want from this truck is seven good years of service—hopefully the same for my old me !