Sounds very similar to my experiences. I was told by my dealership to try towing, so 2 days ago I towed an 8,000lb trailer up the mountain and watched the transmission temperature climb. The last temp I saw was 257 and then the display showed "Transmission Hot, Idle Engine". I was close to home and made it there. I turned the truck off and then back on to see if I could see the temperature. It flashed quickly before going back to the warning screen. I was in the 260's. I have an appointment with the dealership to drop it off again (4th time) tomorrow to see if they can figure it out. No codes ever come up and the dealership says they can't try things to fix it cause they don't have a code or diagnosis and won't get reimbursed by GM for the work that they do. At one time they told be to drive it till something breaks so they will have a diagnosis and something to fix. I shouldn't have to break my brand new truck to have it fixed, it should be their responsibility to fix it. And, the thing that would break would be the transmission and then what, would they rebuild it for me or give me a new transmission? The dealership said it would be up to GM. I didn't pay this much money for a new truck that has a rebuilt transmission.