Eureka! I got the crazy thing working!
Mad props 15HDriver for the tips and info. The factory wire was left nice and tucked away, wrapped in black tape, inside of the connector in the UBEC as you mentioned and we hoped hadn't been cut off LOL
I took pics as I made my way down to the wire inside the UBEC to help explain what I found and did.
(one thing to keep in mind, I didn't disconnect the battery...some people on other sites said to do so, others didn't.)
Once I was able to get the UBEC up and partly out of the way, I found connector X3 and saw the wire from the sport bar brake light going into it. I opened up the connector to expose the wires:
Found the factory wire all nice and taped up!
Next thing I did was to carefully pull the black tape off, making sure not to damage the wire
Then, turning the connector X3 around, I found the sport bar brake light wire. I marked the port, just in case I forgot which one it was in.
Then, I turned the connector back around and removed the blue clip to expose the latches that keep each of the wires in place. This part was a bit of a pain as the clip is pretty thin, and I didn't want it to break, so it just took some time to ease out of the connector. Once the clip was off, I used a probe tool to push down the latch that held the wire for the sport bar brake light and then slowly pulled the wire out.
After that, I inserted the factory wire into the port where the sport bar brake light wire was and then reassembled everything, making sure everything was free of debris and snug.
I used black tape to wrap the sport bar connector and just taped it off in case I, or someone else ever wants to reinstall the sport bar again
kweable, it's totally doable yourself if you have some patience and a few tools. Really, the only part that was a bit crazy was taking off the blue clip on the X3 connector.
Hope the pics helped!
EDIT: Worth noting that when starting the truck after the EBEC is disconnected/reconnected, there were several things that popped up on the info center: outside temp alert (noticed the displayed temp on the nav screen showed 32F, when it is was actually 73F here today) and something about Driver 2.
Both of these alerts cleared and the temp corrected itself after about 10 mins of driving. I'm guessing stuff needed to resync/calibrate after the EBEC was disconnected for so long.
Anyways, just a headsup