My lockup isn't harsh or jerky either upon acceleration. The only issue is upon decel when it goes 4-3, 3-2, 2-1. There is a tie up sensation when it downshifts and what I've read and been told is TCC is engaged during decel and at each downshift it unlocks and locks again but yes I do feel the "let go" at almost stopped and it feels like someone bumped into you from behind. If the TCC wasn't locked up during decel I dont think I'd be bringing up this issue but apparently its just how it is. It's really hard for me to acknowledge this I guess.