Put an order in for the lift, tires, and wheels today. Hope it comes out the way I want it or I'll be pretty sad. Thanks for everyone's pics, comments, and inputs. They all played into my decision. Here is what I am getting:
Lift: 4.5" Zone lift
Wheels: 18x9 +0 Offset
Tires: 295/70/18 Nitto Trail Grapplers
Misc: .5" strut spacer (to help clear the tires) and 1.5" wheel spacers for the rear (so they match the poke in the front)
Again, thanks everyone. Pretty excited. now a week of waiting for everything to come in, then making the appointment at the shop.
Matt