I shouldn't have posted from my phone before. Wow that was ugly lol.
Appreciate the thoughts. I have read more and agree BDS w coilovers, Fox shocks and new UCA is how I would go. 4" on top of the factory 2". And I did see the wheel recs from BDS. I was looking at Fuel Vapor 20s. The back spacing stuff always confuses me to be honest. 35x12.5 is the tire I was looking at.
How will the ride be on 20" wheels, 35s and the BDS coilover w Fox? Like I said I really dont want it as go kart like as my Tacoma was. I upgraded in part due to the more plush ride. I will not be off roading. And I am getting 15.6mpg average right now. I think I could do better if I toned it down and kept it under 80mph on my high way commuting. How big a hit will the mpg take?