Matt, This sounds exactly the same as what was happening to my truck and the fix that I posted here on May 21, 2022. This issue has been solved for me.
Update: My dealer checked the front door gaps and they were within tolerance even though the driver side door gap was visibly larger than the passenger (noise was always coming from the driver side). They replaced both front door weatherstrips (85530936 and 85530937) under warranty. I was able to drive yesterday at 75 mph in a 25-35 mph crosswind and was unable to duplicate the wind/howling noise. I'm considering this issue solved but will report here if it reoccurs.