In my opinion the buffeting helicopter sound is just rapid body booming. The trucks that appear to have the "buffeting" more than others have additional forces (tires, rear end, road conditions, etc.) exciting the sheet metal. I have no vibrations at any speeds (20" wheels) and absolutely have lots of body booming and some buffeting. All of these trucks exhibit body booming to some extent. Purely a design flaw with the chassis, suspension, body/frame mounts...something.
I've had my Tahoe on a few 4 hour road trips. Wife and kids don't notice anything. I can hear and feel it, but it doesn't give me headaches or nausea. It's just a major annoyance to me, I think most are like the Escalade owner and don't notice it or think anything of it.