ok let me get this straight, I'm screwed. she did say that if we can't fix the problem, we might be able to do something for you. i don't trust anyone. so to me it sounds like the same problem like the air bags. they have a bunch of defective devices, and it would cost way too much to change or fix them. the dealer is a great dealer, they try to help out the best they can. but how can they fix something that has no fix. if i almost didn't get rear ended on the parkway last week, i would just keep biting my tongue and live with it. i didn't get another acardia like i had the first time due to a cost saving i needed to do. that had a few problems also, AC leak that they couldn't find, but re charged it when needed, and a horn that you needed to be charles atlas to be able to hit it to make it work. so what can they do with this problem. the no trust for me is, if it is a so called learning transmission, why can't they turn the learning feature off. it's simple, software change is how i see it. i told them i will go the lemon law. i will start bringing it in every week with the same problem, and after the forth time, i will start the process. i will wait and see what they say, before i start blowing fire out of my nose, and start the lemon law