Thanks dude! I ordered the stage III kit with the 3" FX-R projectors, no halo, no shrouds. It all came to $240 and change, with shipping, using the black Friday coupon code.
I wasn't sure about the harness, so I went with the 9006 harness with a note in the order to substitute something else in case I guessed wrong. I figured since the stock 9012's supposedly have the same connector has 9006's, I'll be good to go. Hopefully they see the note and do the right thing...
Had my wife in the truck tonight (raining out) and she asked if my headlights were even on! Sheepishly I said yes and told her I dumped $240 on the HID kit. She understood immediately! But, she's spoiled. Her Acura RDX has awesome lights.
The stock headlights are positively dangerous! I'm waiting for some lawyer to ding GM - the headlights are a disgrace!
As I stated in my OP, I will take lots of photos, before and after pics, etc...
John