RollingThunder -
I connected the jumper cables in the following sequence (which I subsequently found out was WRONG)-
1. Negative good battery
2. Positive good battery
3. Negative bad battery
4. Positive bad battery
I did not look at the owners manual before I connected the cables. I opened it up and it has all sorts of cautions in there about turning everything (lamps, lights, radios, etc) off before jumping. Also says that doing this could help save the radio. What? Could destroy a radio by jumping the car? Oh well, hopefully folks will read this and not follow my footsteps.
FYI - The manual says the correct way to jump the truck is to (these are the highlights and may be different for different models):
1 - turn off ignition of both vehicles
2 - unplug and turn off all unecessary components.
3 - connect the positive cable terminal to the positive of the dead battery
4 - connect the other positive terminal to the positive of the good battery
5 - connect the negative cable terminal to the negative of good battery
6 - connect the other negative to the metal bracket bolted to the engine (has an illustration in manual)
7 - start the vehicle with the good battery and let it run for a while
8 - try starting vehicle with the bad battery.
there are specific steps for cable removal as well.
Performing the BCM reset now. Will report back what I find but do not have high hopes for this magically solving everything.