Thanks for the info guys. If i go with just the Fox 2.0 i would probably dial it down to 1" or 1.5" of lift, run 305/50/20, and call it good. I do like a little rake but not as much as it currently has. Truck has 72k, so the stock suspension isn't fresh.
My concern with the 2.5 and UCA path is that i will have fitment issues with my stock RD5 wheels, 20x9 +27. If i can get a setup like Cognito or whatever that will fit those wheels and some wider tires i have no issues with dropping the extra money for more performance. I would probably dial the 2.5 kit down to 2" to 2.5" range.
I could take or leave the lift height that the BDS kit offers. It would be "cool" but i know staying lower will be better on the street. What would really make me pull the trigger on the BDS+Fox is if it really would ride the best. People selling take off LT 275 65 20 michelins all day long for low prices, that would help take the sting off the full BDS+Fox+labor cost. Having this off road capability might come in handy in the future.
Thanks again, i'm sure this has been rehashed many times in older threads. I've read a lot and still seem confused on the whole A arm variants, UCAS need or not, all that stuff.