Final update that may help some and infuriate us all:
Local glass guys got together, some of these guys have been doing this for 30+ years, and studied the aftermarket window from ATI. They actually got two of them in. They said it is not a solution and there were a number of reasons why. Advised me to avoid that route.
Some of their techs have been doing these repairs for GM dealers and have relationships with upper management at GM. The word from GM is that they are very aware of this, but they have no intention of making a permanent fix at this point. Its TSB sealant, then replace glass, then sealant, etc. Until the owner is out of their 36K bumper to bumper, then they are holding the owner responsible. This may change, hope it does, because it is not a good look for GM. This glass company said they were shocked at GM's position and they will not buy any GM product for their fleet simply due to GM's handling of this issue. They also work on other brands and other brands are having similar issues, but they are being addressed properly (Tundra, Ford, Ram). Basically, if you aren't already aware, GM does not care about their consumers.
Lastly, their best tech that has done dozens of these repairs, advised the most successful repair is to replace the glass and at the same time to perform the TSB sealant. It adds some structure and stability, but is still only a temporary fix but should last longer.
Their next advice, once you are out of warranty, is to simply install fixed glass or trade/sell.