Part 2 is a success! I tapped into the existing cargo light and used it as the trigger for the relay. When the cargo lights turn on, it will trigger the relay to send power to the additional bed lights.
Pardon my frustration but the bed lights I mentioned in the previous post, Xprite lights, are awesome from a lighting perspective... but garbage from a wiring perspective. I decided to cut and re-solder the Xprite wiring harness because the Y-splitter where the lights connect to are way too short. I think these lights are meant to be wired from the front of the bed and then ran towards the back. I'm not set up for that because my power and ground from the 7-way harness are tucked behind the driver side tail light. So I cut the adapter off from the Y-Splitter and re-soldered it to the other end. That way, one adapter is on the passenger tail light and then the wire would run down and under the tailgate to get to the driver side tail light. I also cut off the included switch, not needed since these will be triggered with the cargo lights.
For the passenger side tail light:
For the driver side tail light:
Then I moved on to the MCON 1.2 parts to tap into the bed lights. I made an extension harness to make sure I wired it properly. The GM cargo light has a '+' and '-' sign on the male plug. I tested out the fitment of the connectors to the cargo light and marked where the positive end is and made a note of it so I wire it correctly. It's also a good idea to order extra parts, like two of each for experimental reasons. Thankfully that's what I did. I had some trouble figuring out how to insert the pins into the housing. I hope the picture shows you hot wire and ground clearly. It's hard to put it into words but I tried.
And the end result... ta da. A huge bundle of wires behind the driver tail light. I miscalculated the amount of wire I needed and ended up with so much hanging out after I soldered everything together. Rather than shortening/redoing everything, I just zip tied the extra back there. No harm really. If you crawl under the rear bumper, you can see a straight shot up to the back end of the tail light. I shoved my arm up there and added a few more zip ties to make sure everything stays put. I zip tied everything to other harnesses back there and to the frame, and to each other. That's not going anywhere!
Here's another updated video of the end result: https://photos.app.goo.gl/b3K6PHustdKGtcGV7. Enjoy the super clean bed! It hasn't been this clean EVER.
Now I wait for some adhesive clips I ordered so I can tuck and hide the rock light wires under the bed rail. This was fun and thanks to a ton of other forums that motivated me to do this mod. Before I started, I slowly gathered a ton of info from the site for each step. Took me hours, and a lot of materials. I need to restock my heat shrink, wires, zip ties, solder, and my sanity/patience. But it is totally worth it and puts a smile on my face.
I hope this helps anyone else trying to do the same thing.