Update on this one - upon making fun of the pathetic Bose system at a dealer, a friendly parts guy told me he had the GM 8" Kicker sub and let me listen to it. I thought it was good enough and had some points on my card plus 20% off so I did it. Initially I thought it was ok after install but still kind of weak and it started to get a little better after breaking in a bit. I decided to take the amp to see if it was replaceable. There was a little rubber plug on the back and when removed revealed 6 DIP switches. I searched online and found 3 of them were gain but only 1 of 3 was "on". I flipped the 2nd one "on" and wow did that wake it up. Now it's much better than I expected.
I might think about replacing door speakers now. Or getting the inputs from the Bose sub input instead of a side speaker like it they install it.