You have clearly articulated your needs and we have come to the same answer. I have and plan on towing more than you, so far about 10k of the 19k on truck have been towing. Every decision has plus categories and minus categories it would be no different if you where contemplating a new rv. Be it type and/or Floorplan. My overriding thoughts where payload capacity increase of gasser, lower operating expenses, partly due to my familiarity and ability to repair, and lower initial cost thus freeing up additional capital to further enjoy my destinations. I would enjoy the added torque of diesel but I get my speed/power fix from one of my cars. As you have stated, its a tool. Each have their own purpose and a truck will never satisfy all of your desires just the same as any given sports car will not check every box.