I'm a big fan of adaptive cruise. Agree with the OP on this topic, a bit annoyed that it's not available. Every vehicle we have has it, except for current GMC 3500 and soon to arrive 2020 3500 Denali. Even our Jeep Wrangler has adaptive. Will drive the 2020 until adaptive is released and trade - problem solved.
Yes, a bit annoying, but GM will get there eventually. That could be a new marketing slogan. "We get there, eventually."