Your first statement was what I was going off of, because you stated that the V8 is running on reduced cylinders. Well my 6.2L just changed over from V4 to V8 or what ever other "V" it was in and its RPM's don't change thus getting better FE because it doesn't have to downshift. In a smaller engine it would. I've seen it first hand with both GM v8's and 2 Trailblazer motors. The TQ just wasn't there to keep it in the cruise speed going up hills or a head wind.
As for the 4.3 with the 10 speed, I agree with you that it would wake it up a bit. I still don't know why GM is lackadaisical when it comes to putting in the 10 spd with their lower trim truck and the new HD 6.6L gasser. That truck would be a monster with the 10 spd.
My whole argument was that even if the 4.3L got the 10 spd vs a 5.3L with a 10 spd. In the real world the 5.3L wouldn't shift as much going up hills/mountians and facing a head wind like the V6 would.
And also, I totally agree with you on Furds. I can't stand them, had one in the family and was total junk, won't go back.