Stick to your list and add a differential service, change the brake fluid, don’t bother inspecting it, it will be dark and dirty.
I have a 2014 w 86k miles on it.
im very happy with this truck, only planned on keeping it a few years but it’s been such a solid truck, I’m keeping it a while longer.
I replaced the spark plugs and did the trans service (along w changing a couple of seeping trans cooler lines at 82k
Just changed the coolant (lots of horror stories about aging Dex Cool out there) and added. A bottle of Water Wetter because of the climate I live in.
Air filter gets changed annually as well as the AC cabin filter.
Noticed the plastic portions at the connectors near the fire wall on the 2 heater hoses are starting to turn brownish which means they are starting to deteriorate.
They will be replaced shortly.
Don't overthink it, just get it taken care of.