To view transmission temperature on driver information control (DIC) screen do the following:
1. Press left arrow on steering wheel to take you to menu options on DIC
2. Scroll down to settings
3. Scroll until you reach Info Pages and press right arrow, different options Oil Life, Tire Pressure, Fuel Economy, etc.... will appear.
4. Scroll down to the Transmission Fluid option and press the check mark button.
5. Exit the menu, return to Info Menu and scroll through the transmission fluid temperature will appear.
Lots of good advice above re: towing. Give yourself plenty of space between cars and anticipate having to slow down ahead of time. The brakes on your truck are adequate for daily driving, all bets are off towing 6K pounds or more. Familiarize yourself with how the truck and trailer feel at different speeds. With a 20 foot trailer weighing 5,500 pounds Ioaded, I occasionally pull for work 68-70 miles per hour is the fastest I feel comfortable driving as the sway is minimal. Faster than that and the ride gets harrowing.
Good luck and safe travels.