So I have done quite a bit of google research since I started this thread....and took the suggestions that each of you had input on and what I have found is that there are a good solid handful or more of quality filters that are good...but if true filtration is what you are after, the Purlator ONE (NOT THE BOSS, which is the higher end model...is does not filter as good) is the best filter for filtration...
what i am not going to debate is failure rate and all the other potential things that come with filters (oil pressure drop, etc.) for filtration Purlator ONE is the 'best'...and yes someone mentioned this, i want to be clear i was an unbiased researcher...
there are plenty quality filters that are still really good...some might sacrifice fitration for flow rate...or have a different focus - for example, a off road vehicle that gets the engine rebuilt every 10k miles doesnt need the best filtration, but does probably need good filtration but high flow is more important...i felt that K&N was in that category (although there are some claims that is just another filter with K&N logo on it)...
anyway...my next filter i am going to buy is a Purlator ONE...thanks for all the discussion...and by all means, please tell me why i'm wrong! ?