Ok so further review of driving. The v4 mode still has yet to ever engage. And I have drove the truck all day. Also. You are correct, when I slowly accelerate first gear shifts to second at 12mph.. second gear is around 16mph. So maybe it's stock gear and stock tune and just has the v4 delete. Possible he had a tune on it and threw the stock tune back on when sold the truck. It was a leased truck. Then sold at auction. The dealership says the lift and wheels were on it when they got it and that was all they knew. I may just end up buying a tuner.. like a Dash tuner like Diablo. Really wish there was a way to tell if it's been re-geared. But at this point I'm thinking maybe it hasn't. Because at 70mph my RPM is 1700-1800(notch under 2k) and if it was geared in the 4.56 I think it would be more like 2100-2200. My mpg in town are super low tho 12.5-13.5, again it's 30degrees out and a lot of stop and go traffic. I just want a good stock tune that can land a little better mpg in city. I rarely drive highway and never tow or haul major weight.
So final thoughts are the truck is on stock tune and stock gears with v4 delete. (Possibly previously tuned)