Wow, I missed a lot of good feedback.
BUT just as this mechanic with a heavy electrical background suspected, it was the simple controller/switch (we will call it gain control for simplicity). Swapped it out for the $67 it was and just like that, magically have brakes.
As my original thought right from the start had it, the gain controller was NFG from new. Numbers increased and decreased like it should, but not enough output from it. Its like it had 0,0,0,0,0,0,0,1,2,3 gain settings.
Either way, I sure do appreciate all of you taking the time out of your busy day to dig into this and help. Tons of good information on this thread down different avenues, that Im sure it is going to help many people with similar issues but needing different results.
If it werent for forums like this and people like you, we’d be handcuffed to the competency of our local dealers and unfortunately some of us would not be as fortunate as others.
again, thanks everyone!