Mine is doing they same thing. They did the reprogram and it stayed off for two weeks and now it is flashing again. Interested to hear your update Kmeleon.
Had a fuel injector out #5. That's fixed and check engine light is out. Still have the vibration while coming to a stop...one problem fixed, one remains
It is not stumbling into gear rather as it downshifts coming to a stop the RPMs go so low it seems like it is going to stall and the engine struggles, it recovers once I come to a complete stop.