I have this exact same setup (Borla Pro XS swap and resinator deleted). For the resinator, I had the same shop delete it as putting in the Borla. I had only done the Borla first (same as you) and thought it was a bit quiet too... I after the resinator delete, I was worried cause the guy at the shop tested it himself and his comment was, "meh, it's not "that" much louder..." but I found that it was 'just' enough.
For parts, seeing as I had the shop do it, it was literally just a foot (or so) piece of 3" 304 stainless pipe that he welded in place of the resinator (to go over the outside of the stock 2.75" pipe on either side of where the resinator was and then some really good welds).
The tone doesn't really change, but I did notice that in V4 mode, there was more of an annoying drone (due to the missing flapper from the Borla swap in the first place). I had planned eventually to get a Range device (to eliminate V4 mode altogether) so I starting looking around and I managed to hit a stroke of luck with someone selling a used one locally (as shipping/duty to get one of those across the boarder was really going to make a big dent in the pocket book....).
Now I'm V8 only and it sounds pretty close to that video with the Tahoe - fuel mileage barely changed, to the point where it was hard to tell if the V4 mode was really worth all the design work GM put into it. I don't have a video clip yet, but I've mean to do one ... just haven't got around to it yet.