So...Back to the issue at hand. I've been battling the 70+ mph shakes and so far I have:
Replaced all 4 tires with Michelin LTX AT2 after many road force balances of stock tires. $900
Replaced rear axle u-bolts with heavier ones and torqued to spec. $75
Replaced left rear axle shaft due to excessive lateral runout. $300
Replaced all four shocks with bilstein 4600. $375
So I've spent nearly $1700 to fix the horrible ride on this brand new truck now with only 12,000 miles on it. While all these items did help the shaking somewhat, the last item on the list by far helped the most. Not sure if it was the front or rear shocks that were bad but suspect the rears. The ride is MUCH improved now and almost as good as my last truck ('08 Sierra).