Comments like this are stupid. Saying after-market rims are Ghetto is as stupid as saying big 35" mud tires are Hill Billy. Just buy what you like and don't worry about what others lame opinions.
Quality after-market wheels will work fine for you. My truck came with fairly nice 18" wheels. Once the tires wear out, I will probably be upgrading to 20" after-market (non-chrome) wheels, and wrapping them in some mildly aggressive All Terrains. To me, that's the perfect blend of looks and functionality. I personally could never put 22" wheels on a pickup truck. The selection of 22" All Terrains are limited, I don't want that much flash, and I want more cush to the ride. But to each his own...!!!