I was always a gas engine guy, really don't like the clanky noisy and smelly old diesels. Bought a 2020 as my first diesel and had zero issues with it in 70K miles or the 2025 I bought last fall with 14K on it now. (knock on wood) It's not clanky or stinky and probably much quieter while towing because it just doesn't care. It chuggs along in 10th gear just fine towing my 9000 lb camper at whatever speed I set the cruise control at. It's such a pleasure to tow anything with. It's also a hot rod empty, considering it is an 8000 lb beast. DEF has been a non issue, just another thing to pump at the truck stop every now and then. Oh yeah, did I mention the ease of cruising into a truck lane with the camper vs squeezing in and battling the cars out front? The only extra maintenance I have seen is a new fuel filter every 3rd oil change and it uses an extra gallon of oil at oil change time. Fortunately, the truck never sees stop and go or short trips. In fact I hate driving it in the city anyway, just too big. So perhaps that has a lot to do with why I have had no issues. Maybe I've just been lucky, but I think the emissions issues are generally overblown.
Of course it can't be denied it's an extra 10 grand.