I think it comes down to how much lift you want. 2.5" more lift is a pretty decent amount.
I went with the Cognito 3" Premier leveling kit that has the pitman and idler arm support kit and the Fox shocks with external resi's and UCA's and can tell you, it rides leaps and bounds better than the stock suspension. Mostly because you can adjust the dampening on the shocks.
I originally ordered the Cognito 4" lift but due to Covid, the order kept getting delayed. Well, while I was waiting (2 months) I kept second guessing the lift I chose, and in the end, I decided to go with the Cognito 3". Not because money was an issue for me, but because I can tell you that there's no way in hell I could justify an extra $1700.00 to get 1" more lift. I have no problem spending 4-5K on a full blown big quality lift kit, but theres no way i'm spending almost $3800 on a glorified leveling kit.
As for BDS, I originally was going to go this route because at first I wanted anywhere from a 7-9" lift, but i'm not sure how well that would work if we got the 5th wheel toy hauler we were looking at, so I settled for a high quality leveling kit and 37's. I can tell you I had the BDS 6" with Fox coilovers on my 2016 Sierra 1500 and it rode like a dream.