My post was saying that focusing on the wheel's center of gravity is not correct. The center of gravity could be the same before or after a spacer, depending on the design of the wheel. However, this isn't the issue.
The stock wheel's offset is chosen based on the location of the wheel bearing to locate the wheel such that the wheel's vertical supporting force directly opposes the force from the weight of the vehicle, preventing a moment (axial torque) on the bearing.
It's also not correct to say that using a spacer to re-center the wheel will put more stress on a bearing. If I started with a +26 stock wheel, then installed a +50 offset wheel with a 1" spacer, the relationship from wheel centerline to bearing centerline has not changed and there will NOT be more stress on the bearing.
If you want to kill a bearing, get a huge negative offset and/or a big wheel spacer, which puts the supporting force further outboard than the force of vehicle weight. Now the forces are not opposed, so you have a moment on the bearing.