Are you saying that the fluid film acted as a solvent and softened the frame wax making it gooey to touch? Also, did you spay the complete frame or just experiment with a small part to see how the fluid film reacted with the frame coating? Either way, I think you'll need to scrape the damaged coating off down to bare steel and then recoat it with something suitable. If I had to go down to bare steel, I would clean the metal as well as possible and paint it with a quality frame paint. After it was painted, The fluid film might be a good choice over the paint but not on bare metal. You might be able to remove a good portion if it's already soft with a power washer. Looks like you're job just became a lot larger than planned.