I'm doing all of the same research for my '18 L83 right now, for different reasons. It's why I clicked on the thread.
My truck has a few more miles than yours, 275k in fact. Still on the OG engine with DOD/AFM and all. I love Valvoline. I have fought the transmission issue these trucks are plagued with, twice now. I'll just say this on that subject.....Get that converter out of there. Keeping the temp down should help, and even some good tuning, but eventually that converter will fail and take the transmission out. My first one went at 97k (in extended warranty, cost me $1,100 for a crate unit instead of LKQ), second one at 187k (in crate unit's warranty, tsb done at this time with the 145degree trans-stat). Within 1k miles on number 3 I deleted the stat and added an aux cooler with a fan on it under the truck. I rarely ever see my trans over 155 degrees anymore, usually runs around 130-140. I still want the oem converter out of it since it's getting up there where the others failed. But I digress.
On the dod delete, I'm on the fence between BTR and Texas Speed on where to source the kit. Each being within about $50 of one another and reputable companies. Given the mileage on mine I'll be doing an oil pump, at least, and going thru the whole thing if something in the bottom end looks terrible. I am going to take the engine out on mine for the work, I also want to change the converter so it just makes sense. But I can certainly see the advantage of doing a simple cam swap/delete job while its in the truck. Although it's so much easier to work on out of the truck.
So it's all preventive for me at this point too, it's just a race for me to get it done before inevitable happens.
I'll be going back with an OEM grind cam myself. I did look at the numbers on a few stage 1&2's and just didn't see enough torque gain in a usable rpm range to justify the added costs involved for my needs. If I wanted it to go faster, then yes, but that's what my Camaro is for. Honestly, for money spent I'd bet a simple rear gear swap would be more practical for my use. But she's been a good truck so far, transmission issues aside, so I'll be showing her some love pretty soon.