So update:
The summit white flares are not available anywhere. they do have a new part number, but there is 0 stock of those.
The local accessories warehouse does have 5 sets of summit white flares in stock. However, they are not allowed to sell them. They are on LPO hold and have no ETA of availability.
The dealer can get the pre-primed, ready to paint flares for me. They are the same price as the painted, but I am trying to get them to honor the 25% accessories discount.
The body shop I use, says they would be about $400 to paint them. They will not touch the textured flares
So I am looking at about $925 or so to get a set of painted fender flares. Should I do it??