Just wondering if the OP found a solution?
My 20 GMC 2500 started doing this last week, around about the time I "postponed" on-star update V4.25. I've declined 2 prior updates, in fact I've never accepted an update.
My radio (and window operation) are staying active for about 6 seconds after the driver door is opened. It is supposed to go off instantly when the door opens, and always has. My courtesy lights come on the instant the door is opened, so it isn't the door switch.
I've called 2 dealers and both were very familiar with problems with the RAP (retained access power) system but neither have mentioned a connection with onstar updates. However, several comments on 2 other content strings here where they allowed the updates and the radio-on issue went away.
I just don't trust On-star and reluctant to do an update, much less on top of the 2 I have declined.