So, I've been following this topic for a while and finally had some time to play around with a circuit to turn the DRL off when the turn signal is flashing.
I have no idea what Gen5 is working on but I got this circuit to work in a simulator.
V1 is the DRL switched power supply.
V2 is the flashing signal in the light harness for the turn signal.
The "Turn Cancel" switch is not an actual circuit item; I just used it to simulate the turn signal being shut off at t=10s.
"Turn" is the turn signal LED
R3 is the LED load resistor to prevent hyperflash.
C1 is a capacitor that is charged by the turn signal every time it flashes.
D2 prevents the capacitor from providing power to the turn signal LED when the flasher in in between flashes and after it is shut off.
R1 controls the rate of discharge of the capacitor to be longer than the duration of the flash. This keeps the voltage to the base of the NPN transistor above the "on threshold" even when the flasher is in between flashes.
R2 limits the emitter current of the transistor.
As long as the "on threshold" is met, the transistor allows current to flow through the relay coil, disconnecting the DRL LED power supply.
When the turn signal is turned off (simulated by opening the "Turn Cancel" switch at t=10s) the capacitor fully discharges and the transistor switches off, releasing the relay, and restoring power to the DRL LED.
The TVS Diode prevents the high voltage spike generated by the magnetic field of the relay coil collapsing when it is turned off.