Stay away from the 6.5TD for towing. That engine was optimized for fuel mileage, not power. You can build that engine up to respectable power and longevity, for lots of money.
The 6.0LS is designed for occasional towing, as it's a gas engine. And it's bulletproof if not abused.
Sounds like your mind is made up on a dually, so get the 2008. But that's only my opinion.
I've got an '03 K2500HD SRW, CC, with a 6.0LS that is rated to tow 9000 pounds.