You're right in that the diesel will always out pull the large gas engine offerings. You are also right in that you aren't buying a gas 3/4 ton truck for the 50 extra HP/TQ numbers. For people on the fence, you go with a 3/4 ton for the "everything is bigger/more stable". The 6.6 is cast iron block, forged crank, more cooling capacity, more oiling capacity, etc than the 6.2. It's made not for speed but for longevity running at/near its peak power output at 4k rpm. The suspension, frame, brakes, axles, curb weight are substantially "more" than a 1/2 ton of any flavor.
While the 1/2 ton can tow 8000lbs "no problem", the difference when towing 8000lbs in a 3/4 ton is night and day on any road or incline... starting or stopping. And towing 11000lbs with a 6.2 1/2 ton? I'm sure the brochure says "sure", but no thanks. With the gas 3/4, towing at the max conventional rating of 14500 means you are still really 4000lbs BELOW what the chassis, brakes, frame, suspension, tires can handle, which means stability and control (diesel 3/4 rated for 18500).
And the topic that often gets forgotten when talking tow ratings... payload. The 1/2 ton with 6.2 appears to be about 2100lbs (a little lower than the 5.3 interestingly). 3/4 ton is 3700lbs. All that extra tongue weight, spouse, youngest son, older daughter, and daughter's boyfriend adds up faster than people think when you put an 8000lb camper on the bumper of the 1/2 ton.
The 6.6 also lacks a few things you get on the 5.3/6.2, such as AFM/DFM, auto-start/stop, no add on modules or gizmos needed.
The reason you don't see the big three releasing HD truck gas engines with monster power/torque numbers is because at the end of the day the engine still needs to meet tailpipe AND noise emissions (noise not just muffler noise, but total noise), still get a realistic mileage number, and have the "HD longevity". Fleet sales drive gas HD sales, and fleet buyers don't care about 0-60 times. You won't see the rumored 8.1 in the 2500/3500 trucks for these reasons, primarily the mileage and emissions limits. Of course someone could bolt on several aftermarket mods to their 6.6 and "unleash the latent power" of their engine, but then all four of those factory designed attributes are off the table.