Rex, our dog, tore an ACL this week. He's eight years old and quite active. Surgery coming this week. This young man is a joy to be around and quite a good teacher. His left rear leg is damaged and he hardly seems to notice. He hasn't a single thought of "what if" or worry about Thursday. Dog's can't contemplate the future. We can and that trait while very useful to us in shaping our lives is also a huge source of suffering over things for which we have no control or if we ever did, is now far too late to be of service in finding remedy.
When I talk to my ninety six year old father and observe him; one would never know his cancer has invaded much of his body now. He's not thinking about it or dreading its inevitable outcome. He isn't regretful nor remorseful nor fearful. He's just dad. It's not that he can't feel pain, he just doesn't mind it. When the doctors say they would like to do this or that he laughs at them; " I'm 96, you going to make me 20 again?" He takes Tylenol OTC for his discomfort. Sleeps about 14 hours a day. Enjoys his food and his TV and visit from those of us who treat him like he's just dad. Will joint him on a walk. Not someone to be pitied or hovered over. He'll show ya the door. He smiles at your notice of your own aging process. "Yep, that used to send me to the Doc in a tizzy. Those marks and wrinkles are just what happens. Save your money and your mental health and LOOK at old people".
He has an oncologist and a heart doctor and a GP. He heeds his bodies warning signals and sees his care takers regularly. He just doesn't obsess over it. Frankly, I'm jealous. But I'm also paying close attention to every word he says and every change in his being. He says to me the last visit, "Think I'll hang up my keys. My leg is getting lazy to the pedal". My God I admire this guy. He has always known when enough is enough. When he needed help and when he didn't.
Life, currently, is 100% fatal and man cannot FIX the root cause of our death. (Romans 5:12). I believe my fathers ability to meet this inevitably with such calm is rooted in his faith is God's promises who has provided a means to remove that causation and his eternal purpose for mankind. (Isaiah 65:17).