Have you ever had hard times with your spouse?

[LaserBlueZ71]

Ever thought about giving up, or maybe rebuilt a relationship after it seemed broken?

[SnakeEyeSS]

Oh this seems a bit deep for this site.

[doverarjim]

Yes, but the wife and I made a deal the day we got married, either one of us could leave at anytime no questions asked!! Oh but the one that left had to take the kids when they went, been together for 32 YEARS!!!!!

[Silverado Steve]

^ yeah, you looking for personal advice? I think everyone has had relationship issues. Many married couples go through highs and lows and go to counseling.

[Daryl LBZ]

Tried for years to satisfy my Ex. Offered to go to counseling and everything. She never wanted to. Ended up divorced. Best thing that could have happened. I have a shit ton less stress in my life.

[RyanbabZ71]

Only when my wife mows the grass.

 

 

Ryan

[diyer2]

Life has a lot of ups and downs.

In a marriage if the downs are more than the ups and the pattern continues, life can be undesirable.

Only you will know if it's worth continuing the relationship.

[Tony Bianco]

First marriage never should've happened and did for all the wrong reasons.

 

Second marriage I came into with a learning curve and some wisdom. Of course, ups and downs are part of the territory, but it's (most) of those times that make it easier. Besides, make up sex is better than scheduled sex! LOL

 

Don't give up unless you've tried every avenue .......

[muddkatt]

Bad times happen in every relationship, its how you handle them that makes or breaks you. Like others mentioned, there should be more good time than bad. When you do go through tough times, it makes you appreciate the good times. Ultimately you have to decide if the issue(s) are too big to continue.

[LTZDaddy]

Mine (the marriage) has been almost 39 years, together 42. It's not always easy but the best advice I can say is you never ever go to bed angry. And that worked for about the first 15 maybe 20 years. Then we had to amend it... Never ever wake up angry. What happened yesterday is yesterday. Leave it, don't touch it, don't argue about... it if you didn't say anything about it yesterday today is a new day leave it.

 

And so far that works. ;)

 

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[Likarok]

36 years for me. I would not trade her for anything. We have everything in common and that is what drew me to her in the first place. We both did not want to have kids, we love our GM cars and trucks, like keeping them and our house spotless. You have to find the rite person I guess. Oh and Ryan, my wife makes our lawn look like a ball park. Since I am a big Niners fan we call it "The Stick".

[KARNUT]

I got drawn to my wife by her smile in high school. She was always smiling. I've spent 42 years working to see that smile, cheesy I know. The best friend thing is true. When people ask how do you know I tell them as soon as you can get in a car and take trip the longer the better. At the end you'll know.

[BlackZ71Silverado]

Don't worry about it, trade her in for a new one and things will be better.

[Daryl LBZ]

Don't worry about it, trade her in for a new one and things will be better.

Exactly what I did. Worked out perfectly. [emoji1]

[FishAr]

None that I'm still married to.

 

That's why they invented lawyers.

 

30 years with the last one and we get along great, and unless God forbid she passes away she will be the last one.